VIRTUE: He Said, She Said

The husband and wife must lay virtue, and not passion, as the foundation of their love, that is, when the husband sees any fault in his wife, he must nudge her meekly, and the wife must submit to her husband in this. Likewise when a wife sees some fault in her husband, she must exhort him, and he is obliged to hear her.

— St. Tikhon of Zadonsk

Thanks to FWD from Fr Josiah Trenham.